You want more for your sexual relationship but just don't know what to do.

You feel awkward and shut down when you try to talk about it.

You feel like you are broken, like maybe that part of your life is just over.

You spend more time feeling bad or arguing about sex than you do having sex.

You used to feel like a sexy beast but now you never want to do it.

You are not the only one.

Feeling stuck in your sex life?

People who have created their most authentic sex lives are living by a set of principles that are universally nourishing for sexual expression, relational presence, and a passionate existence.

I’ve pulled all of these principles and practices together into one place, simplified, streamlined so that you can take radical action and create the sex life you have always wanted.

You were meant for more than this.

Enough is enough.

You weren't born on this planet with this one precious life to spend it stuck feeling meh about your sex life. 

It can be different. You just need a little help.

People who have created their most authentic sex lives are living by a set of principles that

are universally nourishing for sexual expression, relational presence, and a passionate existence.

I’ve pulled all of these principles and practices together into one place, simplified, streamlined so that you can take radical action and create the sex life you have always wanted.

You weren't born on this planet with this one precious life to spend it stuck feeling meh about your sex life. 

It can be different. You just need a little help.

Are you ready to...?

get UNSTUCK now with personalized, expert support

PRIORITIZE SEX AS SELF CARE, not obligation

get CLEAR on WHAT YOU WANT 

know how to make your DESIRES A REALITY

create a DEEP CONNECTION to your partner to last a life time

connect with your SEXUAL ENERGY, feel more FLOW, more CREATIVITY

ELIMINATE STRESS & ANXIETY that's keeping you bogged down

It’s time for your sex life to evolve!

Let's do this.

I offer holistic support to help you live your best sex life.

  • Pain with sex
  • Low desire
  • Orgasm problems
  • Erectile disappointments
  • Problems with ejaculation
  • Lack of arousal
  • And much more...

Holistic Sexual Medicine

Let's get started!

Holistic medical support from a licensed nurse practitioner to help you live your best sex life

Sex Counseling & Coaching

I combine holistic sexual medicine,  sex counseling & coaching to help you overcome a wide range of sexual concerns.

Individual Sex
Counseling & Coaching

Let's Talk!
Work on it together!

Couples Sex
Counseling & Coaching

Relationship Counseling

Sometimes working on it together is the best way to build intimacy and a real erotic team.

I am Dr. Lori and I am obsessed with all things sex medicine, counseling, trauma, somatics and healing.  Along the way I have collected quite a few credentials, but more importantly I have learned a lot about how to help folks like you - folks feeling stuck in their sex lives to find their way back to feeling tuned in and turned on again!

 




I'm so glad you are here...

Doctorally prepared, board certified Nurse Practitioner (DNP) specializing in sexuality

AASECT Certified Sex Counselor (CSC)

Advanced training in trauma support - Somatic Experiencing 

In depth couples counseling training - Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy

Post-menopause, my relationship to sex changed. I tried to do a bit of research online, but it wasn't that helpful. Lori Davis' practice is a tremendous resource. I learned that it's too soon to give up. A good sex life is still possible. Ithaca and the surrounding communities are very lucky to have her.

Lori has been instrumental in helping us add life back into our sex life. We’ve been together for 20 years, but sex was still hard for us to talk about — and our intimacy was paying the price. Lori met us where we were, and guided us to a more open (and pleasurable!) place. She helped us approach our thoughts, our feelings and our relationship with curiosity in place of judgement. Everyone should have a Lori.

I have seen many doctors and therapists in my adult life. Although they have been helpful, I’ve always felt as if I wasn’t making as much progress as I hoped and that something was missing from my care. Lori has been the first person able to connect the dots between my physical and emotional symptoms to get to the root of what’s going on. She really listens to what I’m saying and doesn’t brush anything aside. She has helped me learn how to listen to myself and reconnect with my body when I thought that was no longer possible. She encourages curiosity and compassion instead of rigid all or nothing ways of thinking and I can’t thank her enough for the help she has given me.

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